Man crack
“Can’t live with him, can’t live without him.” “He’s perfect for me and completely wrong for me.” “He’s my disease and my cure.” Occasionally a woman will find a man she becomes completely addicted to.…
Blondes are yummy – my Blonde Brownie recipe
At Reverse Tensionz’ December Rope Social, we had a potluck feast of yumminess. I showed a little bit of my domestic side by baking up a couple of batches of my famous Blond Brownies and…
The player gives up dating for sport
Babyboy is a player. He’s in his mid 20’s and has enjoyed dating lots of girls who he openly admits he easily wraps around his little finger. It seems to me he enjoys this little…
My boy, babyboy
D/s relationship status: former submissive Relationship status: friends Babyboy is one of the first potential submissives I developed a relationship with when I began to consider taking on submissives in the summer of 2008. He’s…
Frustrations
Unless you’ve collared or been collared by the significant other of your dreams, you’ve probably experienced at least some of the frustration I’ve endured. It seems inevitable. I’ve made this lifestyle choice and while I…
Potential subs say the sweetest things
Just one of the many sweet things I hear from potential subs (via IM). You move me….. not just Your potential….. But who You are as a Woman now… intuitive…. kind… passionate imaginative…. curious…. You…
Forced bi with fireboytoy and pk
I’d told fireboytoy I had something planned for him, a surprise. Of course he’d asked what it was but all I told him was that it was humiliation. He’d messaged me multiple times that day,…
Exactly where I’m supposed to be
This entry is a continuation of my previous entry, Having the whole world at my feet, about my first meeting with fireboytoy. I removed his earphones but left the blindfold in place. I spoke to…
Having the whole world at my feet
Typically I meet a new prospective sub in a vanilla environment at least once before engaging in any D/s play. However, the rapidly developed rapport that fireboytoy and I enjoyed made a rather unorthodox first…
How to pique my interest
Let’s face it. There are way more male submissives than truly Dominant women. This allows me to be very particular about who I choose to date and/or play with. I can’t speak for every other…
Resources for budding femdoms
In yesterday’s post, “Hope for male subs in vanilla marraiges” I suggested a couple of ways submissive males in vanilla marriages might be able to cultivate the “Domme within” their spouse. If that is successful,…
Hope for male subs in vanilla marriages
Trust me when I say there are a lot of married men who are submissive and their wives have no clue. I know because invariably, they find me, and other Dommes I’m sure, and want…
My boy, fireboytoy
D/s relationship status: former submissive Relationship status: none Fireboytoy is an experienced submissive in his late 30’s. He was in the process of moving to Las Vegas from the east coast when we met Read…
‘Sub shock’ by @prokink
I’ve coined the term “sub shock” to describe the catharsis of emotions a sub experiences after doing something for me that shakes them to the core of their manliness. No matter how many times it…
Akasha’s chastity training for my brit
My brit has flaked on me twice. The first time I chalked it up to newby nerves and gave him a second chance. The second time, I felt I couldn’t take him back no matter…
Poetry from a prospective sub
The following poem was sent to me by a prospective sub I have been speaking with. I thought this was so nice that I wanted to share it with my blog readers, with his permission…
FWB with my FMT
If you follow my blog or my tweets, you’ll probably know about the saga with my FMT, the only vanilla-ish guy I’ve dated this year. The short story is we dated, but not exclusively, broke…
Furniture I must acquire
I’m pretty sure that I desperately need this Tantra Chair to become part of my home. It could use some tie down points but other than that, it’s pretty much perfect. Check out the Tantra…
Cumboy’s last cock shopping assignment
This was the last assignment that cumboy did for me before he decided to decided he needed to spend time in the southwestern jungles of Tanzania rescuing orphaned chimps. Or something like that. One morning…
Irresistible
Four weeks ago I ended an eight month long, on again off again casual dating relationship with my FMT. It was time. I was done being treated badly by him. I wasn’t prepared to feel…