Edging
For those of you who may not know, edging is bringing someone up to the point they’re ready to cum but not letting them orgasm. If you’ve been reading my blog a while, you know…
Making the List – Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2010
Friday night I was perusing twitter when I ran across a link from @writingdirty’s Jack Stratton regarding the list for the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2010. Though I’d been thrilled to learn I was nominated,…
On planning and satisfying cravings
In many areas of my life, I’m very much a planner. I like to schedule things. I like to know what I’m doing, what comes next. But when it comes to playing with a submissive,…
Poly by permission
I’m poly. This is no secret to the boys I see, vanilla or kinky. It can’t be. It’s a part of who I am. When I began seeing my sub almost two months ago, we…
The soup or the can
When a man is sick or in pain, it’s as if the world is coming to an end. This is a universal truth that no one can argue. My typical reaction is one of disgust.…
My boy, my cutie consort
D/s relationship status: none Relationship status: dated briefly My cutie consort and I connected on a vanilla dating website where he’d contacted me hoping I’d be more sensitive to him being bisexual because I am…
My boy, nodder
D/s relationship status: submissive Relationship status: dating It took him six months to earn the nickname ‘nodder.’ Prior to making me cum with a nod and earning that nickname, I’d simply referred to him as…