Ruined
Unlike most Dommes, I’m not into cross dressing. However, I do enjoy a little feminization for humiliation purposes. I like to dress boys in ridiculously feminine panties because it amuses me. The more ridiculous, the…
Girl smorgasbord
Since Elle and I transitioned from lovers to best friends a couple of years ago, I’ve been looking for a girlfriend. It’s something I’ll put sincere effort into sporadically, then I’ll get frustrated and…
The most vanilla we’ve ever been
The Maestro had invited Hando to join him, two other women and me several weeks ago. Scheduling became complicated and like so many planned group sex events, life got in the way and it never…
Anniversary trip of 129 orgasms
It had been a year since Hando‘s nearly vanilla self stumbled into my life and as I looked at him pressed against the wall, my rope secured around his wrists, wearing my collar and lacy…
Christmas bondage
Hando was working abroad during Christmas. We managed to exchange Christmas gifts via FaceTime but it wasn’t until recently that we were able to celebrate Christmas together properly. I wanted to spend the day watching…
The Maestro and the BBC
It’s always a relief to meet someone new that can happily navigate open relationships and who enjoys sex. But rarely do I meet someone more pervy than me. For my third date with the Maestro,…
My boy, the Maestro
D/s relationship status: none Relationship status: dating The Maestro came up as a high match for me on OKCupid, probably because he also enjoys open relationships. Although he does have a little bit of a…
My type
Until a few years ago, I’d always claimed I didn’t have a type. True, I’d enjoyed an exotic men phase (Indian, Egyptian, Iranian, French and Italian) and I’d always enjoyed younger men, but physically, there…
What I learned in 2016
In my Domme prime when I regularly considered new subs, I steered clear of newbies. I’d learned very quickly that boys who were new to the lifestyle had learned what they thought was submission from…
Fucking priorities
Hando has been working abroad through much of our 10 month relationship. In those precious times we are together, we are in bed 90% of the time. And I’m just counting the time we are…
“It’s not like I need it anymore” – by my pet object
My pet object recently surprised me with this delicious little morsel of writing. It’s a piece from his perspective on the fun with chastity and strap-on play that I’ve written about in “Lack of dickstraction…
Boys with handles
Something happens to me when I put on my cock. To say I get aggressive might be an understatement. And with every whimper, cry or moan, my aggression grows. When I’m wearing a strap-on, I…
The night I found him kneeling for me
“Let yourself in. Undress downstairs and come upstairs to me in nothing but the steel plug,” I’d texted Hando as I was getting ready for bed. Just as I was putting toothpaste on my toothbrush,…
“Why do I like it so much?”
My new favorite thing is watching the range of emotions on a guy’s face as he processes a new kinky experience. So fucking hot. I’m seeing it a lot with Hando as I’m introducing new…
The ultimate compliment
“I trust you and your judgement. And you know what I’m ready for and not ready for.” “I do but I LOVE hearing you say that.” “I will do whatever you want.” I marvel at…
Lack of dickstraction and my perfect fuchsia dildo
I had my pet object in my bed in a matter of minutes after his arrival. No D/s play, just two people hungry for each other. I didn’t think about the brand new Holy Trainer…
My boy, my pet object
One night while under the influence, Dr Dom / Mr Subby reblogged a rather ridiculous tumblr picture with a rather ridiculous caption left by some random guy. When he reblogged it, he tacked onto the…
Banana Pussy Motivation
“Sure you don’t wanna make that “who gets some first” bet? Looks like your odds are better than mine.” Hando had a gig that took him 2500 miles away for three months shortly after we…
You should
“Ooh looks like you have a little tiny bruise here,” I said, touching an area of slightly discolored skin on Hando‘s shoulder about the size of a dime. “I told you I get marked easily,”…
My boy, Hando Likekissinhim
D/s relationship status: Submissive Relationship status: open relationship I met Hando Likekissinhim expecting to make a new poly friend in March of 2016 but instead found a powerful and instantaneous connection. He’s a musician in…