Panties
I almost never wear panties. I blame my college boyfriend for that. Despite the fact that I had quite the collection of Victoria’s Secret’s finest silk and satin panties when we met, he preferred me…
What I learned in 2011
2011 was my hottest year yet. Here is what I learned over the past twelve very hot months: I enjoy watersports. A lot. I have a shy bladder. Having a hot guy beg me to…
The Top Lilyana (and nodder) Posts of 2011
I’m super excited to have made the list for Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2011. I moved up to number 17 from last year’s number 30 spot! I’m humbled to find myself in the company of…
Maybe I’m just greedy
I’m polyamorous. I’m a Domme. But I don’t want MY sub submitting to another Domme while he’s submitting to me. Maybe that means I’m not poly. Maybe I’m just greedy. I’ve previously considered and given…
Transparency
“You are quite the sexual lightning rod,” bon-bon told me. We’d been discussing those who had expressed an interest in me lately. Hot women. And he’s all for that by the way. But it always…
The poster child for Secure Partners Only
I knew it wouldn’t work with nodder and me. I knew it. I knew it and I tried to have a relationship with him anyway. It’s funny what you’ll do for love. Hell, I was…
Making the List – Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2010
Friday night I was perusing twitter when I ran across a link from @writingdirty’s Jack Stratton regarding the list for the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2010. Though I’d been thrilled to learn I was nominated,…
One year
Last month marked the 1 year anniversary of me being on Twitter. This month will be the anniversary of my blog. It’s not necessarily a reason to celebrate but it has made me reflect. One…
Am I polyamorous?
I’ve learned a lot about myself over the past 3 years. First I learned I am bi sexual. Mmmm that was a deliciously welcome discovery. The thrill I felt when she first said, “I think…
How to pique my interest
Let’s face it. There are way more male submissives than truly Dominant women. This allows me to be very particular about who I choose to date and/or play with. I can’t speak for every other…
My thoughts on submission (for prospective subs)
Submission occurs by your VOLUNTARY choice alone. The desire to serve me must come from within you and cannot and will not be non-consensually imposed by me, which is both immoral and illegal. I will…
About Mistress Lilyana
I’m 5′-7″ and very feminine, voluptuous, with bright blue eyes, long auburn hair and super soft porcelain white skin. If you’re into skinny chicks, you probably won’t like me, but I’m not exactly BBW either.…
Defining My Dominance
I’ve always been very open minded about all things sexual. And I’ve always enjoyed control, but only from a vanilla perspective. Until 2008 anyway. In the spring of 2008, I met a very special friend…