What I learned in 2011
2011 was my hottest year yet. Here is what I learned over the past twelve very hot months: I enjoy watersports. A lot. I have a shy bladder. Having a hot guy beg me to…
Sharing
For me, a big part of the beauty of the ownership aspect of D/s is that I can share what is mine with others. I share my sub and it makes me hot to do…
Mouthy
I normally enjoy a mouthy sub, particularly one as witty as nodder. Not disrespectfully mouthy but talkative. I almost never impose speech restrictions. I’d been talking about playing off and on all day but when…
Everything is better with rope
My love of rope is well documented and undisputed. And really, what’s not to love? In my blog Peeing on nodder I detailed my first golden shower experience with him. It was very very hot…
Sadistic me
For some reason, this picture makes me inexplicably happy. Two years ago, before I recognized my dominance, I would have been shocked and appalled to see this picture. One year ago, before I truly embraced…
CBT: Does the T stand for Torture?
As I explore BDSM, I’m finding that my interests are even more diverse than I had anticipated when I started down this path. I am nothing if not sensual in my Domination style and yet,…
An “advocate” for male submissives
My FMT and I have been dating off and on since January. It’s mostly been on, but we haven’t been seeing each other very often. We don’t talk every day or anything but we do…