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Ruined

Unlike most Dommes, I’m not into cross dressing. However, I do enjoy a little feminization for humiliation purposes.  I like to dress boys in ridiculously feminine panties because it amuses me.  The more ridiculous, the… 

Anniversary trip of 129 orgasms

It had been a year since Hando‘s nearly vanilla self stumbled into my life and as I looked at him pressed against the wall, my rope secured around his wrists, wearing my collar and lacy… 

Christmas bondage

Hando was working abroad during Christmas. We managed to exchange Christmas gifts via FaceTime but it wasn’t until recently that we were able to celebrate Christmas together properly. I wanted to spend the day watching… 

What I learned in 2016

In my Domme prime when I regularly considered new subs, I steered clear of newbies. I’d learned very quickly that boys who were new to the lifestyle had learned what they thought was submission from… 

Fucking priorities

Hando has been working abroad through much of our 10 month relationship. In those precious times we are together, we are in bed 90% of the time. And I’m just counting the time we are… 

Boys with handles

Something happens to me when I put on my cock. To say I get aggressive might be an understatement. And with every whimper, cry or moan, my aggression grows. When I’m wearing a strap-on, I… 

“Why do I like it so much?”

My new favorite thing is watching the range of emotions on a guy’s face as he processes a new kinky experience. So fucking hot.  I’m seeing it a lot with Hando as I’m introducing new… 

The ultimate compliment

“I trust you and your judgement. And you know what I’m ready for and not ready for.” “I do but I LOVE hearing you say that.” “I will do whatever you want.” I marvel at… 

Banana Pussy Motivation

“Sure you don’t wanna make that “who gets some first” bet? Looks like your odds are better than mine.”  Hando had a gig that took him 2500 miles away for three months shortly after we… 

You should

“Ooh looks like you have a little tiny bruise here,” I said, touching an area of slightly discolored skin on Hando‘s shoulder about the size of a dime. “I told you I get marked easily,”… 

She’s baaaaaack!

Nodder has been in and out of my life for five years as a play partner, lover and much much more. In February, things ended. He moved out of my home and, eventually, out of… 

Romkink – by the writer

Last August I wrote about my frustration with the lack of romantic gestures I see from male subs. It was a subject I’d debated on twitter with a couple of my favorite Femdoms, Ferns and… 

Romantic shit

I once had a potential bring me my favorite lavender roses with a bottle of my favorite wine. He scored serious points for his sweetness AND for paying attention. And to this day, a picture… 

Kryptonite

So I’ve been dating this vanilla guy for almost five months. Nothing serious, rather casual. I like the way he asks me questions that make me think almost as much as I like the way… 

In his eyes

As I alternated between a slow, sensual strokes up and down his shaft, sharp slaps to his cock and firm pats to his balls, I watched his face change.  Sometimes, his eyes are closed as… 

Panties

I almost never wear panties. I blame my college boyfriend for that. Despite the fact that I had quite the collection of Victoria’s Secret’s finest silk and satin panties when we met, he preferred me… 

Chemistry

My first date with medieval ken, almost a year ago, remains the best first date I’ve ever had. He took the initiative to plan it and I let him. He chose a lovely restaurant with… 

The hottest thing I never did

I once considered a mixed martial artist with UFC aspirations. He had a beautiful body, was smart as hell and fiercely competitive. There aren’t any other sports that captivate me quite the way the UFC…