Ruined
Unlike most Dommes, I’m not into cross dressing. However, I do enjoy a little feminization for humiliation purposes. I like to dress boys in ridiculously feminine panties because it amuses me. The more ridiculous, the…
Anniversary trip of 129 orgasms
It had been a year since Hando‘s nearly vanilla self stumbled into my life and as I looked at him pressed against the wall, my rope secured around his wrists, wearing my collar and lacy…
Christmas bondage
Hando was working abroad during Christmas. We managed to exchange Christmas gifts via FaceTime but it wasn’t until recently that we were able to celebrate Christmas together properly. I wanted to spend the day watching…
What I learned in 2016
In my Domme prime when I regularly considered new subs, I steered clear of newbies. I’d learned very quickly that boys who were new to the lifestyle had learned what they thought was submission from…
Fucking priorities
Hando has been working abroad through much of our 10 month relationship. In those precious times we are together, we are in bed 90% of the time. And I’m just counting the time we are…
Banana Pussy Motivation
“Sure you don’t wanna make that “who gets some first” bet? Looks like your odds are better than mine.” Hando had a gig that took him 2500 miles away for three months shortly after we…
You should
“Ooh looks like you have a little tiny bruise here,” I said, touching an area of slightly discolored skin on Hando‘s shoulder about the size of a dime. “I told you I get marked easily,”…
Playing with (and kissing) bon-bon again
Bon-bon walked in to find me lounging on his sofa, sipping Riesling, watching porn and texting my friend. Ever the good boy, he came to me and kissed my hand in greeting. “Hello, Mistress.” He…
She’s baaaaaack!
Nodder has been in and out of my life for five years as a play partner, lover and much much more. In February, things ended. He moved out of my home and, eventually, out of…
It's like a real relationship
So you may have noticed I snuck in a blog last week without explaining why I have not really written in ten months or tell you what I’ve been doing during that time. And if…
Shaved head
“How do you feel about shaving my head?” nodder asked. “About you having a shaved head or me shaving it?” “Either. Both. What do you think?” “I think it’s a great idea.” “You do?” I…
Romkink – by the writer
Last August I wrote about my frustration with the lack of romantic gestures I see from male subs. It was a subject I’d debated on twitter with a couple of my favorite Femdoms, Ferns and…
Romantic shit
I once had a potential bring me my favorite lavender roses with a bottle of my favorite wine. He scored serious points for his sweetness AND for paying attention. And to this day, a picture…
Kryptonite
So I’ve been dating this vanilla guy for almost five months. Nothing serious, rather casual. I like the way he asks me questions that make me think almost as much as I like the way…
Normal – by the writer
My former long distance sub and close friend, the writer, wrote this recently for me. It so beautifully captures the loving D/s dynamic between a Domme and her sub that I wanted to share it.…
In his eyes
As I alternated between a slow, sensual strokes up and down his shaft, sharp slaps to his cock and firm pats to his balls, I watched his face change. Sometimes, his eyes are closed as…