What I learned in 2011
2011 was my hottest year yet. Here is what I learned over the past twelve very hot months: I enjoy watersports. A lot. I have a shy bladder. Having a hot guy beg me to…
Sharing
For me, a big part of the beauty of the ownership aspect of D/s is that I can share what is mine with others. I share my sub and it makes me hot to do…
The repulsive things that make your cock hard
People tell me their wildest fantasies. They also tell me all about the crazy, naughty, twisted things they’ve done. Did you know most straight men have tranny fantasies? Know how I know? They tell me.…
Discovering boot and foot worship
I have a list of rules I give submissives. It includes instructions on how to address me and greet me in both public and private, grooming and fitness/maintenance guidelines, as well as expectations for behavior.…
Is he submissive or just kinky?
I’ve spoken with a lot of submissive guys in the short year since I realized I’m Dominant. A lot. And I’ve spoken with a few guys who THINK they’re submissive who are really not. Last…
Tying up your BFFs on a Sunday afternoon
My two BFFs are both beautiful and talented in so many different ways, I can’t possible describe them in one blog. They are also open minded and for someone as kinky as I, that’s a…
Why I’m not into cross dressing exhibitionists
Last week I met a very cute male submissive in his late 20’s on CollarMe.com who seemed earnest in his desires for submission so after a few messages, we moved our discussion to IM. We…
Domming the Doms
My very first submissive, 6, was a Dom. I was the first woman he submitted to. He can actually be credited for recognizing my Dominance and bringing it out of me. When I first agreed…
An “advocate” for male submissives
My FMT and I have been dating off and on since January. It’s mostly been on, but we haven’t been seeing each other very often. We don’t talk every day or anything but we do…
I’ve decided to blog
My online friend, Writer Dom, thinks I should blog, and I think perhaps he is right. I really do need an outlet to share all of my kinky hot thoughts. I twitter, but it’s tough…