Ruined
Unlike most Dommes, I’m not into cross dressing. However, I do enjoy a little feminization for humiliation purposes. I like to dress boys in ridiculously feminine panties because it amuses me. The more ridiculous, the…
Anniversary trip of 129 orgasms
It had been a year since Hando‘s nearly vanilla self stumbled into my life and as I looked at him pressed against the wall, my rope secured around his wrists, wearing my collar and lacy…
Christmas bondage
Hando was working abroad during Christmas. We managed to exchange Christmas gifts via FaceTime but it wasn’t until recently that we were able to celebrate Christmas together properly. I wanted to spend the day watching…
My type
Until a few years ago, I’d always claimed I didn’t have a type. True, I’d enjoyed an exotic men phase (Indian, Egyptian, Iranian, French and Italian) and I’d always enjoyed younger men, but physically, there…
What I learned in 2016
In my Domme prime when I regularly considered new subs, I steered clear of newbies. I’d learned very quickly that boys who were new to the lifestyle had learned what they thought was submission from…
Boys with handles
Something happens to me when I put on my cock. To say I get aggressive might be an understatement. And with every whimper, cry or moan, my aggression grows. When I’m wearing a strap-on, I…
The night I found him kneeling for me
“Let yourself in. Undress downstairs and come upstairs to me in nothing but the steel plug,” I’d texted Hando as I was getting ready for bed. Just as I was putting toothpaste on my toothbrush,…
“Why do I like it so much?”
My new favorite thing is watching the range of emotions on a guy’s face as he processes a new kinky experience. So fucking hot. I’m seeing it a lot with Hando as I’m introducing new…
The ultimate compliment
“I trust you and your judgement. And you know what I’m ready for and not ready for.” “I do but I LOVE hearing you say that.” “I will do whatever you want.” I marvel at…
My boy, my pet object
One night while under the influence, Dr Dom / Mr Subby reblogged a rather ridiculous tumblr picture with a rather ridiculous caption left by some random guy. When he reblogged it, he tacked onto the…
Playing with (and kissing) bon-bon again
Bon-bon walked in to find me lounging on his sofa, sipping Riesling, watching porn and texting my friend. Ever the good boy, he came to me and kissed my hand in greeting. “Hello, Mistress.” He…
She’s baaaaaack!
Nodder has been in and out of my life for five years as a play partner, lover and much much more. In February, things ended. He moved out of my home and, eventually, out of…
It's like a real relationship
So you may have noticed I snuck in a blog last week without explaining why I have not really written in ten months or tell you what I’ve been doing during that time. And if…
Normal – by the writer
My former long distance sub and close friend, the writer, wrote this recently for me. It so beautifully captures the loving D/s dynamic between a Domme and her sub that I wanted to share it.…
Chemistry
My first date with medieval ken, almost a year ago, remains the best first date I’ve ever had. He took the initiative to plan it and I let him. He chose a lovely restaurant with…
The hottest thing I never did
I once considered a mixed martial artist with UFC aspirations. He had a beautiful body, was smart as hell and fiercely competitive. There aren’t any other sports that captivate me quite the way the UFC…
Eye contact
Call me romantic but I really enjoy looking deep into a man’s eyes when I push my cock into his ass. I’ve bent a boy over. It’s always nice. There’s something more than a just…
Subtradiction – by the writer
Subtradiction – n. colloquial The contradictory feelings experience by a submissive who finds himself caught between two contradictory desires It’s the best word I can imagine to describe the state I’m in. After seven weeks…
What I learned in 2011
2011 was my hottest year yet. Here is what I learned over the past twelve very hot months: I enjoy watersports. A lot. I have a shy bladder. Having a hot guy beg me to…
Sharing
For me, a big part of the beauty of the ownership aspect of D/s is that I can share what is mine with others. I share my sub and it makes me hot to do…