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My boy, the Maestro

D/s relationship status: none Relationship status: dating  The Maestro came up as a high match for me on OKCupid, probably because he also enjoys open relationships. Although he does have a little bit of a… 

My boy, Hando Likekissinhim

D/s relationship status: Submissive Relationship status: open relationship I met Hando Likekissinhim expecting to make a new poly friend in March of 2016 but instead found a powerful and instantaneous connection. He’s a musician in… 

My boy, The Gentleman (Gent)

D/s relationship status: N/A Relationship status: dating After a more than 2.5 year hiatus of intentionally not bringing anyone new into my life, in December of 2015, I decided to start dating again. The Gentleman… 

My boy, Dr. Dom / Mr. Subby

Two and a half years ago, he found my blog. Shortly thereafter, he found me on twitter. Since then, we’ve slowly become closer through social media and over the phone, until one night, a month… 

My boy, my medieval ken

D/s relationship status: submissive Relationship status: dating casually Medieval ken’s vast collection of BDSM toys and furniture earned him his nickname in December, 2011. “It’s like he’s a ken doll that comes with his own… 

My boy, the bon-bon

D/s relationship status: formerly play partners Relationship status: friends The bon-bon earned his nickname after nearly three months of being known as “the new guy.” It was inspired by my friend and Domme, Akasha, who… 

My boy, the writer

D/s relationship status: long distance submissive Relationship status: friends The writer is a 50 something year old professional writer who lives on the East coast.  We began corresponding through my blog and developed a friendship.… 

My boy, my cutie consort

D/s relationship status: none Relationship status: dated briefly My cutie consort and I connected on a vanilla dating website where he’d contacted me hoping I’d be more sensitive to him being bisexual because I am… 

My boy, nodder

D/s relationship status: submissive Relationship status: dating It took him six months to earn the nickname ‘nodder.’ Prior to making me cum with a nod and earning that nickname, I’d simply referred to him as… 

My boy, 9

D/s relationship status: inactive Dom (just not mine)   Relationship status: formerly dated, open relationship 9 is the ninth and final guy with the same name I’m going to date. This is it. I refuse… 

My boy, my consort

D/s relationship status: none Relationship status: formerly dated My Domme BFF and I came up with the term consort to denote the vanilla men we choose to have sex with. I originally ran across it… 

The girl

D/s relationship status: play partners Relationship status: friends The girl is 40 years old and 5′-10″ of yummy subbiness with long ash blond hair and green eyes. She lives in Arizona but travels to Vegas… 

My boy, babyboy

D/s relationship status: former submissive Relationship status: friends Babyboy is one of the first potential submissives I developed a relationship with when I began to consider taking on submissives in the summer of 2008. He’s… 

My boy, fireboytoy

D/s relationship status: former submissive Relationship status: none Fireboytoy is an experienced submissive in his late 30’s. He was in the process of moving to Las Vegas from the east coast when we met Read… 

My boy, my brit

D/s relationship status: submissive Relationship status: friends My brit lives in Northwestern England and is in his mid twenties. He discovered me online and pursued me sweetly but diligently. He won me over with his… 

My boy, chewtoy

D/s relationship status: bottom Relationship status: formerly dated, currently friends I hadn’t taking the initiative to message anyone through collarme.com in at least 6 months when I ran across chewtoy’s profile in late July 2009.… 

My boy, 7

D/s relationship status: formerly being considered for submissionRelationship status: formerly dated 7 is a Vegas local in his mid 40’s who I met in July via a vanilla dating site where I had just posted… 

My boy, pk

D/s relationship status: former submissive, play pal Relationship status: formerly sort of (but not really) dated, currently friends In case you were wondering, pk stands for Possible Keeper, which is what I originally thought of… 

My boy, my Dom friend

D/s relationship status: submissive, formerly occasional playmate Relationship status: friend My Dom friend has been tying up girls for more than 30 years and decided he wanted to try the other side of the flogger,… 

My boy, my pet

D/s relationship status: former online submissive Relationship status: friend My pet began submitting to me online since November of 2008. He’s in his early 30’s, lives in Southern California and enjoyed being on cam for…